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AMERICA'S NEWEST TREND: ALCOHOLIC ENEMAS

Experts: Alcohol Enemas are Extremely Dangerous.

Thank God we have 'experts' to constantly remind us not to do that which seems obviously stupid. I'll bet the guy who came up with that self-evident little piece of handy advice was paid at least high six-figures.

It's a good thing we're sending our children off to college in record numbers, huh? This, Ladies and Gentlemen, is what some of you have saved for all of your lives. It is what you have sacrificed or deferred vacations, dental fillings, the occasional steak, knee-replacement surgery and new cars for. It is why you have indebted yourself for the rest of your natural life with second mortgages and school loans.

All so your kids can go off to college, get a Master's Degree in Holistic Basketweaving (in only 7 years, too!), and in the meantime, discover new, exciting -- and dangerous -- things to stick up their backsides, or to do with alcohol, and preferably do both simultaneously. This is what most of you are paying nearly $60,000 a year for in the vain hope that your child will emerge from the college experience just slightly smarter than when they went in.

"PRETTY" TEACHER GOT PROBATION FOR SLEEPING WITH 14-Y/O, "NOT-AS-PRETTY" TEACHER GOT 5 YEARS FOR SLEEPING WITH 18 Y/Os

My buddy Monstah shared a story on his Facebook page over the weekend about Brittni Colleps, a teacher from Texas who was recently given five years in prison for having an inappropriate relationship with five students. I didn't think anything of it at first, because I figured justice was being served, but when I actually read the story, I didn't agree with what happened.

Apparently, this teacher had sex with five 18-year-old students at her home last year. I expressed in the thread how I didn't see any crime in what happened. I was then shown the portion of the State of Texas Penal Code where it says that any sexual contact between teachers and students at the same school is a felony. Still I didn't see any crime.

I went on to say that had these students murdered someone, the headline would've read "Grown-ass men murdered someone", and that they would've been tried as adults. I was told that we weren't talking about murder, but a teacher who took advantage of poor students blah blah blah. Poor students? These "poor students" are old enough to vote, fight for this country, get married, buy cigarettes, and rent porn. When the students testified, they said that they weren't forced or felt pressured into doing it. In fact, the young adults recommended that the teacher not get in trouble at all.

Because it took the jury less than three hours to agree on Colleps' sentence, I said in the thread that if this woman were pretty, she would've gotten probation.

Case in point: Remember the infamous Debra Lafave from Florida? She was also sentenced for sleeping with a student, except this student was 14-years-old. Lafave was charged with two counts of lewd and lascivious behavior; two years of house arrest for the first count, and one year of house arrest with seven years of probation for the second count.

Lafave was ordered to stay 1000 feet away from schools and daycare centers. She had to enroll in a course for sex offenders, told not to possess any porn or obscene material, and was ordered take a polygraph test annually. That was in 2005. When she finished her house arrest, she was dismissed from probation - four years early.

In all fairness, I have to report that just several days ago, her probation was reinstated. Still, Debra Lafave never did a day in prison for sleeping with that 14-year-old student.

Colleps never got the option to do house arrest or community service. She wasn't offered a deal where she would have to stay away from places children hang out. She got prison. And although that's the standard for student/teacher encounters, I think a young lawyer can make a name for his or herself by getting Colleps a better deal.

Whether this really has anything to do with looks, but more or less the states these people live in, common sense should be used when handling these kinds of cases. My job is to start conversations or shake up the ones already in progress. For example, back in May, a Florida teacher who had a relationship with an 18-year-old student did not face charges because why? Because they were consenting adults. Discuss.

So, let me ask: do you think Colleps' sentence of five years was appropriate? Should she have gotten more time? Do you think the men involved were poor victims? Do you think it's fair that Lafave took advantage of a 14-year-old and did no time, while Colleps' "victims" were 18-year-olds and got five years? Do you think Lafave got no prison time because she was pretty? Because she had good lawyers maybe? What kind of time do you think Lafave should've gotten? Do you think it's inappropriate for any person in any authority position to engage in a relationship with a subordinate?

13 YEAR OLD BOY BULLIED, BEATEN OVER 30 MINUTES; TOLD NOT TO RETURN TO SCHOOL

I've noticed that there have been a lot of bullying cases in the news lately. Children are being bullied about everything from being gay (or because they are thought to be), for being overweight, not so attractive, or for just being what other children would consider to be, "different". The latest story I've encountered takes place in Upper Darby, Pa. Seven students, ages ranging from 13-17 years, who attended Upper Darby High school's "Opportunity Center", an alternative school for students with behavioral problems, have been arrested on charges of kidnapping, assault, false imprisonment and reckless endangerment of 13 year old Nadin Khoury. According to news articles and reports, on January 11th, Khoury was walking home from school when he was approached by the teens who physically abused him for about 30 minutes. One of the assailants even videotaped the assault with his cell phone and later posted the video on Youtube. The video which is said to have lasted about 20 minutes, shows Khoury being kicked and beaten, dragged through the snow, strung from a tree from which he fell face first, and eventually hung from a 7 foot fence by his jacket. Khoury and his family are recent immigrants from Liberia, and according to Khoury, he has been bullied over a hundred times because of his African descent and his mother's accent, which was reported to the school and nothing was done about it. Also, according to the Khourys, there have been threats made towards them which is forcing them to move and apparently the school has advised his mother not to send him back to school yet. Personally, if this were my child, I would've been standing outside the school waiting for them to open so that I could tell them (and maybe even show them) a piece of my mind. Here is a video from one news source concerning the incident...

 

My question is, why wasn't something done sooner about the bullying before it could get this far? I was a child once and I understand that children can sometimes be cruel, but a line has to be drawn somewhere. Where do we start? Well, I say it starts at home. What do you think?